How can we backup/restore share sites individually. Can we export a share site in one alfresco instance as a .acp file and import it to another alfresco instance ?
This should work for content, but not for anything else site related e.g. members, groups, component configurations, etc.
Typically, sites aren't backed up individually, though. You would generally back up the entire repository on a regular basis, e.g. nightly, weekly, quarterly, etc.