The way graphiti works is that is creates an intermediate file, containing a diagram that graphiti can understand. As long as the activiti-editor is open, it manipulates that representation. When saved, the original BPMN-file is written with the changes? However, as long as the editor-window is open, the BPMN source file will not be read agian.
A solution would be to find the right editor and close/re-open it, to have the BPMN read.